Now from your Journal, which won't let me reply, here's a bit of experience talking to you: Did the pregnancy come before or after you & your guy got "engaged"? I sure hope the pregnancy isn't WHY you got engaged -- wrong reason for sure!
I couldn't even handle being MARRIED at 18, much less could I have handled a child. If you aren't morally opposed to it, I'd get the abortion and either wait about 10 years to have kids, or make Mr. Right get "fixed" so there are no more "accidents".
Whatever you do, don't have it and KEEP it out of guilt!!!
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Date: 2007-03-15 03:15 am (UTC)Now from your Journal, which won't let me reply, here's a bit of experience talking to you:
Did the pregnancy come before or after you & your guy got "engaged"? I sure hope the pregnancy isn't WHY you got engaged -- wrong reason for sure!
I couldn't even handle being MARRIED at 18, much less could I have handled a child. If you aren't morally opposed to it, I'd get the abortion and either wait about 10 years to have kids, or make Mr. Right get "fixed" so there are no more "accidents".
Whatever you do, don't have it and KEEP it out of guilt!!!